Father’s Day 2003

When your day starts with breakfast in bed and the giving of gifts, you know it’s not going to be too bad of a day.

Wendi and the kids brought me french toast and bacon. I love bacon. Mmmmm, bacon. I also received a bunch of Father’s Day cards, both commerical and handmade. Add to that a stack of music CDs and you’re talking about a pretty good morning.

For the record, pardon the pun: Phil Collins’ “No Jacket Required” and “But Seriously,” and Sting’s “Brand New Day” and “All This Time.” One of the discs I already owned, but that’s okay. I was very touched and very happy all the same.

I spent most of the day playing games by myself, recouperating from the stresses of work and from the strange day Saturday turned out to be. At day’s end, Wendi went out and picked up a bit of chinese-ish food from Safeway as well as various pizza-like objects and a whole bunch of Henry’s root beer.

A side note for those who are interested: If you really want to butter me up then bring me Stouffer’s french bread pizzas, the pepperoni if you please. Thank you.

Another side note: Safeway’s chinese-ish food is really not all that great. As if you needed to be warned.

One more side note: Henry Weinhard’s is the best root beer on the planet, bar none.

I put in a call to my own father late in the evening. Some incorrect notions about the divorce needed laying to rest, and we talked about falling headfirst into major life changes. All in all, we had a nice chat.

The last event for the evening was a round of Boggle with all five members of the current household. Yes, even “grampa” got into the act. After a number of truly horrid rounds (“I can’t believe you managed to make that entire half all vowels!” alternated with “Um, how did you manage to only get one vowel?”) we closed out the game with the boys all well ahead on points. I won, of course.

Yet another side note: We play Boggle with slightly modified rules. To wit, the kids are the only ones allowed to write down or score from three-letter words. It forces the adults to really work for their words, and it ensures that the children will get a respectable score as long as they put forth reasonable effort.

After the Boggle game we shipped the kids off to bed, Grampa went singing, and that was pretty much the end of the day…

I can only hope that dads everywhere had at least as good a day as I did. Happy Father’s Day!

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3 responses to “Father’s Day 2003”

  1. GreyDuck Avatar

    We’re trying very hard not to do the bitter avoid-y thing. The reasons for our divorce don’t require us to be angry with each other, and we’re still reasonably good friends as well as devoted parents. We just have no business being married to one another.

  2. Sam Avatar
    Sam

    Fair enough. A shame most other people don’t act that way.

  3. Sam Avatar
    Sam

    OK ok I admit it. I have been unprecendtedly lax in keeping up with my reading. Are you and Wife back together, or are you just not all bitter and avoid-y like most people are when they take a break?