Category: Life

  • The end of a long, long road.

    I’ll try to keep this brief.

    As of today, Wendi and I are no longer a married couple, for all intents and purposes. (The legalities will take a while, as legalities tend to do.) The parting is amicable, if tearful and saddening. The reasons and details may or may not follow at some later date. I may decide it’s nobody’s business. Then again, I’m also a shameless exhibitionist in some ways. Only time will tell, and right now it’s too damned soon.

    I may take a couple of days off from posting, or I may not. Right now I’m not sure of very many things except that I have to get up in the morning and go to work, pretending that all is right with the world.

    Good night, everyone. Sleep well, and cherish those you love.

  • A diurnal in the life.

    At the end of a long, long, long work week — make that month — I was more than happy to take Wendi up on her offer of dinner and a movie Friday night. A chance to talk as well as just “be” together is always a good thing, especially lately. We have much to discuss, after all.

    Dinner was at Red Robin, home of several varieties of burger-like gutbombs. The ambience, such as it was, involved birthday chanting from the waitstaff as well as general loudness among the patrons. We weren’t bothered, since it gave us the covering noise so our private conversation wouldn’t be overheard even by the folks sitting right next to us. (I joked about not wanting to be the person shouting at the top of my lungs if the room suddenly went quiet, “… and then she offered to give me a blowjob!” Great mental image, wot?)

    After dinner comes the movie, at least on nearly every date we’ve had in our nearly twelve years together. (June 22nd, folks.) This time we picked the new Matrix thing. We bought the tickets, then strolled through the Fortress Of Chaos And Evil to kill time. We picked up some bug spray, mouse traps and moss killer. Presumably none of this is to be used on Yours Truly.

    What can I say about “The Matrix Reloaded” that hasn’t already been said? My capsule review reads something like this: An uneven collection of set pieces is punctuated by weird talky bits. A few really cool things happen, but mostly the movie is painful to watch. We waited through the credits for the trailer, after which I thought, “So what?” At this point I’m disinclined to see the last movie in a theater, unless a lot of people I admire tell me it’s worthwhile.

    Oh yeah, and the sex/rave/orgy scene was silly. While I have less against the blatant display of human flesh as my wife, she and I are in complete agreement this time: Any movie that requires that much pointless gratuitous sex can’t have a lot going on for it in the plot department.

    (Wait, was this thing supposed to have a plot? Maybe not, but I had high expectations of the people behind a couple other movies I rather liked. Go ahead and laugh if you must.)

    Wendi’s review, by the way, is right here. I’m not bothering with a full write-up.

    After dragging ourselves home (by way of the Albertson’s in whose parking lot we, ah, parked all evening) (and wasn’t that a surreal experience, what with the asian couple carting a dozen large bundles of tee-pee and paper towels through the express lane at nearly midnight) we paid off the sitter and Wendi drove him home. End, Friday night.

    Begin the morning, late. Like, almost noon late. In bed. I don’t think I need to go into details, here, but suffice to say it was a nice morning. Er, twice.

    Wendi ran off to get her tires replaced (one flat, one with nail) and then we gathered the kids (one gleeful, one reluctant) for our first visit to the Crystal Springs Rhododendron Garden in ages. (Pictures will appear in the Gallery shortly after I complete this posting, mostly in the Natural Beauty section.) Afterward we went to Bi-Mart for squirt guns and a water slide, to Baskin Robbins for a sampling of the 31 flavors, to WinCo for groceries, and finally we landed at home.

    All in all, I can think of worse ways to kill half a weekend. My goodness yes. Tonight, we dine on party pizzas and play silly games until bedtime!

    (Update, 9pm: A new segment of the Gallery titled The Fam contains images of my wife and rugrats enjoying the rhodie gardens and the waterfowl therein. For regular “flowers and ducks” material, check out the vastly-expanded Natural Beauty area. Thank you.)

  • After George Left Us

    You may recall, back in March, a journal entry regarding the tragic loss of a close family member. Since then I’ve been (politely) pestering my remaining uncle for his account of what happened immediately afterward. With his permission, it is now online.

    While this may only be of interest to close friends and family, I’m sharing it with everyone anyway. My reasons are my own.

    Goodbye, George Kerezman.
    The George Diaries

  • A few site updates and other tidbits

    A few quickies for the day, in lieu of actual content. (One could argue that all of my entries are “in lieu of actual content,” I suppose.)

    Off to the left, down where the other buttons live, is my GeoURL link. Yes, you can find me (or people near me) by physical location. Isn’t technology grand? Just more proof that I’m probably not as paranoid as I ought to be, or something.

    Off to the right, below the daily email address link, are my instant messaging system nicknames. The AOL Instant Messenger one is also a link to send me a quick message. As AIM’s the system I’m almost always on, I figure that’s the only one I’ll bother putting a link for.

    In other news, Intellectual Orgy can be traded on BlogShares. I leave the value of this fact as an intellectual exercise for the reader, given that I’m not really that vigorous about “playing” the BlogShares game.

    Uncle Pete will be sending me a copy of his write-up of the story of Uncle George’s passing at some point in the (relatively) near future. Shortly afterward it will become a permanent part of this website. If you’re so inclined, please think positive thoughts in the direction of southern Texas. Pete can use all the love and joy he can get right about now.

    That’s all for tonight, folks. Maybe I’ll do some photography for next time. What do you think?

  • Movie! Work! Movie! Friends! What a weekend!

    It all started Friday evening, as most weekends do. My grandfather and his wife took the kids to a concert, so Wendi and I took advantage of the opportunity for a quick dinner date. Have I mentioned that I love NoHo’s teriyaki chicken? I have? Good.

    We hurried through dinner, hurried back to the house… and waited until 10:30 for the kids to be returned. See, they decided to visit the conveniently-located Burgerville for a bite. Oh well. This just meant that the kids would be really tired once we got home from…

    X2: X-Men United. We dragged the kids to an 11:00pm showing on Friday night. The short review? I liked it. The longer review looks something like this.

    Saturday dawned far too early for our sleepy bodies. Wendi had to work, and before work she had to run around doing errands. Luckily for her she had a trainee along to help lug things, and doubly lucky for her the gig ended early. Afterward came some unpleasantness between her and I, but it was all sorted out by morning to the betterment of all involved.

    Let’s just say that communication, caring and honesty are incredibly vital things in any loving relationship.

    Sunday was Bebop Movie Day for my friends and I. First, however, I had to do my usual email maintenance and AS/400 tape backup routine. I won’t go into the problems with corporate email, since it’ll only ruin a perfectly cheerful mood. Suffice to say that eventually I got the hell out of there and out to the theater, where I met…

    Mari, with Angst and Anxiety (Lilith’s “demonspawn”) in tow. We bought our tickets and headed for the front of the balcony, where I’ve sat for nearly every movie I’ve seen at Cinema 21. (Let me tell you, back in the day I saw movies there all the damned time, too.) Eventually Mari was able to find and retrieve Lilith and Geoffrey, but couldn’t spot Celina and Wade. Oh well.

    Short version of my Bebop review: Eh, it was okay. The details are available if you want the full discourse.

    I’d like to break for a rant, here. What is it with anime moviemakers? Is there some cultural thing that decrees, “thou shalt include random philosophical mumbo-jumbo in all action/adventure fare”? Escaflowne has it, the X movie was drowning in it, and even the Bebop movie couldn’t escape the curse. (Don’t get me started on Gundam Wing, an entire TV series built around the concept of “philosophical discourse during battle.”) The movie is chirping along just fine, and WHAM, we get two or three solid minutes of pointless rambling about fate or the nature of the universe or reality versus fantasy or some-such. I don’t mind a bit of deeper meaning, but I don’t want to be preached at. Repeatedly. Is anyone listening? Anyone? Bueller?

    Okay then. The movie (that Mari slept partly through) ended, and surprise! We found Celina and Wade, who’d gotten to the theater just a bit too late to meet up with Mari. Ah well. This was the first time Mari or I had met Celina, though we’d chatted with her on and off for quite a while from back in the old #KNRK days. (She was Mononoke.) Celina’s a cutie, and Wade’s a helluva lucky guy.

    We all went out for chinese food, had a pretty good time, and went more-or-less on our seperate ways. There are worse ways to spend a Sunday afternoon than taking in a movie and then dinner with friends. Far, far worse.

    The remainder of my evening was spent killing time over at Lil’ and Geoffrey’s place. We made fun of Red Planet, we made fun of the demonspawn, we made fun of Sometimes They Come Back, we made fun of each other. In short, we all had fun.

    I’m sure that everything I forgot or left out will appear elsewhere, eventually. In the meantime, suffice to say that I had a fulfilling and happy weekend, all told. I’ve never had so many good friends at one time before, and it’s a great feeling.

    Thank you, my friends, for making my weekend fabulous.
    My X2 Review
    My Bebop Review

  • Ins and Outs at the Kerezman Abode

    All kinds of folk are dropping by our place lately. Just yesterday, my “long-lost” cousin Angela brought her husband and one of her children to visit with Wendi for a while. I’m told everyone had a nice time, and Angie wants my help writing a book about her early life. Too bad I don’t remember much from those days…

    Last night Geoffrey came over for a couple hours’ worth of gamer-geek fun, starring aliens and predators. I will say this: The Marines in AvP2 get some really nifty hardware. The Aliens hide very, very well. The Predators… well, I haven’t tried them very much yet. I’ll find out and get back to you, if you’re really curious.

    Tonight, Mari’s due over for a couple hours of Cowboy Bebop so she knows what’s going on before seeing the movie. She’ll meet Spike, Jet, Ein and Faye, but sadly not Edward. Such is life. She’ll at least be ready for the movie on Sunday.

    I think I like being host to friends and family. Yeah. So who wants to come over next?